(Soft gospel rhythm or gentle keyboard pad playing)
Lilbed keying
(Pause – smiling to audience)
When a man plants a garden,
He does not stand over the seed and shout,
“By tomorrow, I want mangoes!”
No, he kneels…
He waters…
He waits.
He believes that what is unseen under the soil
Is working silently under the grace of God.
(Pause – humorous tone) Don't bother if there's no Music.
Some people pray for marriage in the morning
And want wedding invitations by evening!
Even God took six days to make the world
And He rested on the seventh.
Some of you must rest too ,
Not to rush!
(Audience laughter)
That is how love must grow.
That is how relationship must live.
Love is not fast food;
It is slow-cooked by faith.
It is patience marinated in purpose.
Two hearts are like two seeds.
They do not bear fruit on the first day.
They need watering, care, and pruning.
Because even roses have thorns,
But wise gardeners do not quit gardening because of the sting.
(Smile)
They say, “Lord, thank You for the thorn - it keeps my garden humble!”
(Pause – gentle laughter)
Public Relations teaches how to manage image.
But Personal Relations teaches how to manage hearts.
Every good marriage has a press release called Truth,
A media strategy called Understanding,
And a reputation policy called Forgiveness.
(Pause – softer tone) Don't bother if there's no Music.
When storms rise , and rise they will ,
Do not abandon your garden.
Because no brand survives without crisis management,
And no marriage stands without grace.
Some people change partners like they change logos ,
But loyalty, not design, keeps the name strong.
(Smile 😁 -lightly humorous)
Adam blamed Eve,
Eve blamed the serpent,
And the serpent had no lawyer!
That is how family crisis began.
(Laughter)
But thank God - grace came with Jesus,
And the garden was reopened!
(Lift tone – passionate) . Don't bother if there's no Music.
Jesus told stories to make truth walk among men.
He spoke in parables so that faith could grow where laughter lives.
So here is a story for the heart:
Love is not a show , it is a service.
Relationship is not a campaign , it is a calling.
Marriage is not the end of communication ,
It is the beginning of holy partnership.
So build your bond like a good PR team from Heaven:
Listen before you speak.
Respond, do not react.
Be transparent, not tricky.
Protect each other’s name like a brand that must never lose value.
Renew your message every morning with prayer and purpose.
(Pause – humor again)
If your partner forgets to say “I love you,”
Do not call a press conference!
Water your garden , do not burn the farm.
This what Pure-servant calls Carino patience
Lilbed- will drive your mind to spark old fashion Novas to earn an award for a successful marriage..
I don't care who don't care...
(Laughs and soft applause)
When laughter fades, let joy remain.
When flowers fall, let roots hold.
When emotions rest, let covenant speak.
Because a true relationship tells a story
That the world believes ,
And Heaven approves.
(Step back slowly ,look upward)
May your love be a garden that grows,
Not a billboard that fades.
Written for A Performer
This is from Lilbed Wordweave.
Obed Yadzo